If you were in anyway sexual assaulted,
during last 100 yrs, Pls report the
incident and resolve it,
before the end of the year

so we will not have to have
MEDIA coverage all over the place
next year, and in the future.

Should anyone, in 2019, and in the
future become a victim or survivor,
report the incident IMMEDIATELY,
or within seconds of getting close
to a phone, that is what 911 calls
are all about.

THIS WILL HAVE A MAJOR IMPACT,
(REDUCTION) on future sex abuse predators (CAN BECOME OBSOLETE) and
allow us as a world to move on
to other issues, like world peace,
or something....

It is so sad, the media, covers
this with church and political
people, teachers, etc...etc...
this is a suggestion to put a final
end to all of this.. 

Do I have to? 

Great idea! 

so we will not have to have
MEDIA coverage all over the place
next year, and in the future.

Suck much to be a guy right now? Karma, karma, karma...where the HELL have you been....rofl......... 

Suck much to be a guy right now?
Not if you're a good guy. 

And good guys acknowledge there's a BIG problem, even if they've never done this or even knew it existed. 

It depends on the definition of sexual harassment and sexual assault. Plus, are we now to judge the actions of yesterday by the standards of today and hold people accountable by today's standards?

We are now in a situation where any woman can make any wild accusation against any man at any time in his life and its automatically believed. Why isn't the mans denial automatically believed. Women do lie. 

And that would be a problem too. However, I'm not talking about he said, she said situations. I'm talking about the rash of men who are admitting it and getting caught. 

I'm talking about the rash of men who are admitting it and getting caught.

Seems like a high number of them are out of the entertainment industry. 

I'm talking about the rash of men who are admitting it and getting caught.

Ewwww, they got a rash from it?!? 

And media: Charlie Rose, Matt Lauer, Roger Ailes...

I still think it's the power. 

I still think it's the power.

Its conquest. Power just makes it easier. But, lets not forget women are attracted to men with power. 

It really is news and media dominated:
71 firings and resignations since Harvey Weinstein:

After Weinstein 

Women are attracted to them Emp, but once it's obvious they are 50 shades of cray cray, that attraction evaporates into nothing. Unless they want a sugar daddy and he wants to be one..

No healthy woman wants a letch for a BF. 

Why are women attracted to men with power? Power is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Women having voluntary sex with a powerful man is tantamount to vampiring that power itself. So, this sort of explains the attraction to powerful men. But, how does it go from the possibility of consensual sex to coerced sex. Simple, both have what the other wants. When women "meter" it out or dangle the carrot to get the power he's got but never really submit the male is feels used and therefore, takes it by coercion or worse force. 

Why are men attracted to boobs? Bc women go for image and men go for beauty. Neither one is bad, right? It?s natures way of fostering attraction which needs to happen.

I think you confuse normal female/male interactions dating/dance with abusive behavior. Consensual mating/dating behaviors are what?s normal. Coercing, harassing and using power for leverage clearly is not.
Are you saying normal minded men think they should ?take? a females attention rather than earn it through consensual activities? And if a woman flirts or acts interested but decides not to go forward, The man feels entitled to force himself on her bc she used him? 

I think you confuse normal female/male interactions dating/dance with abusive behavior.

I'm not talking about dating, I'm talking about the everyday world. I'm talking about what happens in office across corporate America every day. What happens isn't dating.

Are you saying normal minded men think they should ?take? a females attention rather than earn it through consensual activities?

And if a woman flirts or acts interested but decides not to go forward, The man feels entitled to force himself on her bc she used him?

That's not at all what I said. I'm saying that women want powerful men and do whatever it takes to secure the attention of that man, up to and including sex. They seem to like the male attributes that made that man powerful such as; aggressiveness, conquest, and winning. When she overtly or more subtly offers sex for his attention and then withdraws the offer for whatever reason, men like that do not tend to take losing very well. 

I still think it's the power.?
And, the women who like the bad boys. 

When she overtly or more subtly offers sex for his attention and then withdraws the offer for whatever reason,
Well said! 

What is your definition of subtly offering sex? 

The bottom line is, no man is entitled to sex, period. Period. Did I say period?

It doesn't matter if she flirts or teases. It doesn't matter if she's a hooker. No means no. If a man thinks he's entitled to sex bc there's flirting, he's wrong. Hell, many of you on here have said flirting is "harmless, meaning less fun." LOL. You aren't entitled to sex anytime, for any reason unless she actually goes along with it, even if you're married. It's crazy men actually think this, To the point, being rejected is grounds for assault or harassment.
Kinda like a King calling for a beheading at someone insubordination... 

Here's a profile of a harasser/abuser from Live Science:

"Among the strongest indications that a man might sexually harass or even sexually assault someone, Russell said, is that man's belief in rape myths. These include false beliefs like that if a woman goes home with a man after a date, she's automatically willing to have sex with him, or that wearing certain clothes means "asking for trouble." In a 2016 study published in the journal Personality and Individual Differences, Russell and her doctoral adviser Alan King found that acceptance of rape myths ? such as the idea that a woman in a miniskirt wants sex ? was directly linked to the probability of a man committing sexual assault.

"Other studies back up this linkage. A 2016 paper by researchers at Wayne State University published in the journal Violence Against Women asked 183 men who self-reported sexually coercive behavior why they did what they did. More than half said they were justified in coercing or even raping a woman because she had gotten them aroused; 40 percent said the victim was partially responsible because she'd led them on. Justifications of sexually coercive behavior were linked to belief in rape myths, the researchers reported.

"They feel entitled to sexual access," Russell said of sexually coercive men. "Especially combined with those gender role [beliefs], women are basically there for them to get what they need. And if a woman dares to, say, reject them, they tend to get pretty angry and that is when a lot of aggressive stuff will happen." 

The bottom line is, no man is entitled to sex, period. Period. Did I say period?


I don?t appreciate this. I have been forced many times to have sex with a woman that was on her period because she felt entitled to make love while ovulating.

It goes both ways. Men are victims that sometimes are held hostage. Imagine I would have tried to run away from the situation? Covered in blood, and publicly shamed by her girlfriends about how I must be homosexual because I did not want to have sex with her.

Going forward, I think sex should be held in public places with witnesses to avoid confusion. 

So sad, too bad! 

So sad, too bad!?

I express my feelings and they get mocked by a moderator that posts quotes.

Thanks. 

I am saddened that the adults in this room - don't have the courage to speak up... 

If a man thinks he's entitled to sex bc there's flirting, he's wrong.

I don't know any men that believe that, but I'm sure there are some.

The truth is, women use sex or the subtle hint of the possibility of sex as control. When they use this on a man with some sort off power over them (usually employment) it can and often does go horribly wrong. To be frank, women use sex to get what they want from a man. In the work place, its money, position and status. 

I am saddened that the adults in this room - don't have the courage to speak up...?

We are. You just can't hear us over the children screaming. 

The bottom line is, no man is entitled to sex, period. Period. Did I say period?
Nature disagrees with you. Humans are animals first, sapients second.
Preservation of the species is an overwhelming force. While I don't agree that rape is a good thing, it is still a social construct. 

It?s pretty clear to see WHY sexual harassment is such a problem. Men can barely admit to themselves it?s wrong.

So rape is nature?s way of inspiring reproduction? And a social construct? LOL

No, it?s men feeling entitled to harass and rape women. Then tell themselves nature made me do it!! 

Please define sexual harassment? 

So rape is nature?s way of inspiring reproduction? And a social construct? LOL

No, it?s men feeling entitled to harass and rape women. Then tell themselves nature made me do it!!

While perpetuation of the species is a powerful drive for sex, the social constructs of law, morals, social mores and ethics are what separates us from the animals. 

And a social construct? LOL
A social construct is the shared assumption of reality.
Maybe if you were not speaking emotionality and started thinking rationally about what others are writing you would be more receptive to others' line of thinking. I've seen no one on this thread that said harassing or other behavior is good, or the norm here. 

Please define sexual harassment??

Nowadays? Thinking about a female. 

I don?t appreciate this. I have been forced many times to have sex with a woman that was on her period because she felt entitled to make love while ovulating.

FYI, having your period is the opposite of ovulating. LOL! 

HA! 

The truth is, women use sex or the subtle hint of the possibility of sex as control.

Subtle hint of the possibility? What, like smiling and saying Good Morning? 

What, like smiling and saying Good Morning?

Tatt and her dirty talk! LOL 

LMBO!!!! 

Subtle hint of the possibility? What, like smiling and saying Good Morning?

That's it exactly. I know that makes me out of control.